Shaving: Secrets Dad Never Told You


It’s that subject you and your dad never mentioned. He felt too awkward to talk about it, and you — fearful he’d go into graphic details on how it’s done properly and (ugh) tell the story of his first time — didn’t even know how to bring it up. Yes, we’re talking about shaving.

As a result, you haven’t enjoyed the benefits of a baby-clean face since before your voice dropped an octave. And if you don’t have the sharpest shaving IQ, don’t worry: You’re not alone. Dr. Lisa Kellett, a dermatologist, says about 50 percent of her patients don’t shave properly. “It’s a time-consuming ritual, and the other problem is educating men about their skin,” she says. “The trend of men’s skin care is a new one.”

Your dad will agree with that last point, although you and he will probably never talk about it. Here are some pointers on how to shave the right way so you and the old man can talk about more comfortable subjects, like women.

Step 1: Shower first
Hot water opens the pores and softens the skin and hair. Ideally, you should also use an exfoliator, which will remove the dead outer layer of skin and keep the pores clean, recommends Kellett.

Step 2: Lather up
Use a thick, nondrying shave gel and apply it in a circular motion. “If you have one, use a badger-hair shaving brush, which helps lift the hairs, allowing the razor to cut them more cleanly and minimizing the stubborn few that escape the blade,” says Dr. Jeffrey Benabio, a dermatologist and skin care expert.

Step 3: Use a sharp, multiblade razor
If you don’t have an effective, multiblade razor, you’re undermining all your other efforts. Rinse after every pass to remove hair and shave cream, and don’t press hard when shaving or you’ll be removing a layer of skin too. “Men don’t have to sacrifice their skin for a closer shave,” says Kellett. Just let the blade glide over your face and replace the cartridge after four or five uses.

Step 4: Shave in the direction the hair grows
Shave in the wrong direction and you’ll scrape away a layer of skin. And keep in mind: Hair doesn’t always point downward — especially on the sideburns, chin and neck, notes Benabio.

Step 5: Wash your face
Splash with cold water to close the pores. Pat dry.

Step 6: Moisturize
Lotion or aftershave will regenerate the skin. “A gel-based one is better for acne-prone skin,” advises Kellett.

Greg Melville is a former Men’s Journal editor who has written about grooming for several publications, including Men’s Health. Melville sports a mean noontime shadow.

Image credit: Tijmen van Dobbenburgh

4 thoughts on “Shaving: Secrets Dad Never Told You

  1. I agree with all of these except number 3, although I don’t know how many of the ones I agree with are “secrets”. The best shaves of my life have come in the last year, since I have changed to an old-school style safety razor. My favorite can be found at , but if that is out of your budget, you can search ebay for “gillette safety razor” or just “safety razor” and get one that works quite well, although it might be a bit old. In any case, multiple blades, especially for those with reall sensitive skin like me, are bad news.

  2. In full agreement with Steven in regards to a Safety Razor giving a far closer and cheaper shave than a multi-blade razor. Granted it takes a bit longer to shave, but it is just as safe and more gentle (less razor burn and nicks)…I just can’t get over the fact that 100 blades is less than $20 with a safety razor. Search Safety Razor Kit on Amazon or the bay and you will find a number of inexpensive options of razors and brushes…

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