Great! So glad you are back and hopefully you have reached your senses and understand that “monkey see, monkey do” is more than just a quaint phrase. We have all watched our kids emulate grown-up behavior and it’s no accident that children of all ages, socio-economic backgrounds, ethnicities, religions, and on – all do it! It’s UNIVERSAL! They will emulate the good AND the bad no matter how much we try to tell them what to do and how to do it – they are WATCHING!
Let’s have a little therapy session, shall we?
So ask yourself this question, “Am I doing the things I am asking of my kids?” I know, that was not nice was it?! Depending on your answer, you are feeling somewhere between the June Cleaver type and the Tazmanian Devil. If you are June Cleaver you may be thinking all is well with the world. I’m not really concerned about offending any Junes out there because Junes are doing all the work themselves and probably aren’t reading this blog anyway. As for the Tazs, you know who you are (admit it)m and chances are you already feel bad enough about the state of your stuff, so let me approach this from somewhere around the Malcolm in the Middle area.
You GOTTA do it! Here are a few tips to get you started
- Start with making your bed; it’s big, and just that alone makes a noticeable difference.
- Then pick up everything off of the floor and pile it on your bed. Set your timer for 7 minutes and don’t stop moving until it’s all put away, PROPERLY! Yes you do only have 7 minutes so MOVE IT. Don’t turn of the timer until your done.
- Next comes the dresser – what in the world is all that stuff doing up there? Get a trash bag – half of it can be thrown away anyway. If you are a pocket paper collector, get a colorful jar and use it to store your 80 million tiny pieces of paper that pile up on the dresser once you’ve purged your pockets – go through it once a month and purge old receipts, notes to self, etc.
- One way to keep the bedroom from going bonkers is to Not Not Not bring anything in that is not bedroomy. There is no reason for your gardening shoes to be in your closet or for the week’s mail to be on top of the 80 million little pieces of paper on your dresser. If it doesn’t come in… it won’t have to be taken out. Make it a rule, then follow it!
Make a chart, or get in touch with your inner child and use one of ours (major points with the kids). Use it to make sure you pay at least 5 minutes of attention to your room everyday. I can say from experience, 5 minutes a day is all you really need to keep your room from becoming the very thing your sweet little person uses against you when you ask them to clean theirs!
Image credit: Jessica Wilson
Danielle Griggs is a working mother of three, Amanda (13), Zac (9), and Isabella (7). She was transplanted to the South about 11 years ago by her husband, with then 2 year old daughter. She’s the soccer, baseball, and volleyball mom, and YES, she drives a mini-van! Danielle started Tidy Kidz with her daughter because of Isabella’s gift for tidiness and their desire to share it. Danielle finds that family life is busier than ever and it takes teamwork to keep the family machine running smoothly.